Mom Probs

 "My mom won't leave me alone"
"My mom is always in my buisness"
"My mom has to control everything i do"

If these are common issues for you then i've got your soultions. First of all, it is important to realize that your mom does love you, and only wants the best for you. Perhaps what you consider "prying" is her way of staying in touch with you. One way to aviod feeling constricted is by telling your mom about your day. Its probable that your mom simply enjoys conversation with you. You may not realize it, but as you're getting older and have alot going on, you're more likely to be wore out and tired when you get home, therefore less likely to want to hold a conversation with anyone. By simply telling your mom about your day is a great way to satisfy her questions and keep the fighting to a minimum. You may feel that your mom controls you. This is probably true. In most cases, teenagers want to be independent. They think that they don't need anyone to tell them right from wrong. However, they certianly do. From your young teenage years till graduation you're constantly learning, and who better to teach you those things than your mom, who (believe it or not) has been through all of it. A great idea would be to talk to your mom about everything that you are struggling with, ask her to possible approach situations differently, and tell her that you will come to her to talk about things more often. Tell her how you feel and chances are she'll listen, your mom wants you to be happy and safe. Maybe she dosen't know that the way she is doing things bothers you. It is very possible for you and your mom to discuss things in a way that satisfies the both of you.

-Alice

Boys Boys Boys

More often than not, middle and high school girls'  problems involve boys. For each problem their is a specific soulution but generally it boils down to this; what may seam like a pressing issue is simply something that will pass in the next week. In the long run, its much nicer to have good friends than to get the boy you liked. Believe it or not, life does goes on, and the troubles you had today or yesterday will seam miniscule when looking back on them. Keep your head held high and remember that keeping a good friend will always outway the benifits of having a boyfriend.

-Alice

Alice 101

Hello Everyone,

I have created this webiste to answer daily questions, conflicts, and or settle disputes between the pupils at Darrington High School. Feel free to tell me about your day or any problems you might be having and I'll do my best to try and solve them! Post issues for public viewing in the "Comments" section, or if you prefer, send me a private email at askalicepersonally@gmail.com

Have a great day

-Alice